Okay, so before we get started – I have to admit…
… the subject of this email MAY have exaggerated a bit. Some parents are actually really great with this.
But for many, MANY parents – it’s tough as nails.
Here, the Chinese have a proverb that says it best: “Parents who are afraid to put their foot down usually have children who step on their toes.”
Do you know that one? Can you think of a situation (or ten) where you can relate?
Most parents can.
It usually boils down to a simple, understandable problem: You want your kids to like you, and are afraid of being too mean or strict, and ruining your great relationship with them.
I usually offer this piece of advice to parents who are timid about putting their foot down…
“If your kid doesn’t like you at least once a day – you’re doing it wrong!”
It’s just part of the gig. The sooner you can get over this little hill that feels like a mountain…
… the sooner you’ll earn more respect and discipline from your kids.
Shameless plug: martial arts is also an amazing way to help your kids develop and enhance these traits.
If you’re trying to instill more patience, discipline and respect in your kids I can’t recommend martial arts enough.
Have a great one,
Sifu Tony Child
Total Martial Arts